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Sensual Boudoir Photography, Portraits, Glamour & Art Nude Photography. London, UK & beyond.
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How joyous it is to be thoroughly you.
Patrick Falaniko • Aug 23, 2020
I'm happy if my job as a boudoir photographer helps women undo years of being made to feel ashamed of their bodies or sexuality. That's where I think boudoir and burlesque have a lot in common.
Pictured: commission of boudoir sketch for @bollyditz.dolly
Burlesque and the Boudoir
. People call different images to mind when they hear the word ‘burlesque’. Some think of Natalie Wood as famous stripper Gypsy Rose Lee. Others think of big feather boas and Mae West one-liners. For others still, the word may only ring recent bells, if they’ve taken it upon themselves to watch the 2010 film of the same name, starring Christina Aguilera and Cher.
Whatever springs to mind for you, amongst the many varied women who may treat themselves to a boudoir photography shoot, you will almost certainly find burlesque performers dotted amongst them.
In many ways, this is unsurprising: you’d expect burlesque performers to be comfortable enough with their bodies for such a shoot, and they may well need portfolio material for the modelling side of their careers. But there is another, purely empowering side to both burlesque and boudoir.
For those of you unfamiliar, here’s a potted history:
The word “burlesque” initially meant ‘to mock, satirise or make fun,’ and is recognised as a theatrical trope since ancient Greek times. It was a long road to get from there to the Dita von Teeses of today! While the satirical burlesque of ancient Greece and Europe was still bawdy, the striptease element of burlesque came more by way of America.
Burlesque arrived in USA in the mid-1800s via the Victorian music halls of England and an enterprising lady by the name of Lydia Thompson and her British Blondes.
USA had been familiar with “leg shows” since the Civil War, but this was something different. From there, producers such as Florenz Ziegfeld (whose Follies you will doubtless have heard of, if only from Twenties/Thirties themed birthday parties) and the Minsky Brothers capitalised upon and adapted this controversial art form.
As you can imagine, the backlash was huge, and eventually drove burlesque out of public spaces and favour. It wasn’t until the 1990s that what is thought of as “neo-burlesque” arrived on the scene. Neo-burlesque took the vintage ‘cheesecake’ striptease, and gave it the punk power of the Nineties’ Riot Grrrls and much more besides. Whereas early burlesque performed femininity, Neoburlesque interpreted and interrogated it. Loads of subsets and different styles emerged, borrowing from all realms of pop culture.
Nowadays, burlesque dovetails into many ‘scenes’, from the BDSM and kink community, to cosplay, to “burlesqercise” classes at your local gym.
The modern-day understanding of burlesque is also infused with inspiration from ‘la belle epoque’ and the Moulin Rouge (the famous Parisian nightclub and the film!).
It’s impossible to give only one answer as to why burlesque made quite the comeback that it did, and why many women are now just as likely to go see a burlesque show as their male counterparts. A lot of performers are attracted to tasting burlesque for themselves because of the old movies they loved watching growing up, or the vintage ‘pin-up girl’ fashions, or retro music. Others love the expressive musicality and personality, something good burlesque choreography does very well.
One reason which unites many new performers, is that they want to undo years of being made to feel ashamed of their bodies or sexuality. It’s this point where there is huge cross-over between burlesque and boudoir photography. In a good boudoir session, women are given permission to be who they always were: sensual, wild, untamed, creative, expressive, and whole. The wide and diverse range of burlesque you can see in your local theatre allows women to be all of these things too. Modern burlesque also prides itself on being a welcome space for every size and shape of woman – just like the Goddess Studio!
One big misconception is that boudoir and burlesque have to be sexual. This is not the case, although both are usually sensual in one way or another by nature of the art forms. Both boudoir and burlesque also have a performance element, though no one audience is specified. Boudoir and art nude photography and burlesque performances can often be for the ‘performer’ themselves, an audience of one.
Importantly, burlesque and boudoir photography at the Goddess Studio both have this one other factor in common: JOY. Celebrating yourself, celebrating your body through movement (no matter what it looks like), celebrating the strong and divine in you, and hopefully reminding you of how joyous it is to be thoroughly you.
You don’t have to be a pin-up starlet or burlesque babe to be welcomed at the Goddess Studio boudoir! One of my great privileges is working with clients who are brand new to boudoir, who are ready (even if they’re still scared!) to make the commitment to loving themselves through the experience of the shoot. Of course, aspiring Teases are more than welcome too – I’ll look forward to chatting hair and makeup with you as you get ready for a shoot you’re guaranteed to love!
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So what happens if you really only require one or two images? Yes, I get do get many inquiries for actor and modelling online applications, and Linkedin and Business Profile images, the Ice Breaker session is ideal for you.
Of course you can treat yourself to a luxurious and empowering experience, simply because you deserve it. Here's a few more wonderful reasons to book a boudoir photo shoot or photo session with us... 1. Self-Love: Take time out to embrace self-care and celebrate your own unique beauty. 2. Empowerment: (Re)discover your confidence and an inner strength you may have not realised you had all along. 3. Milestone Celebrations: Whether it's turning 30, 40, or 50, any significant milestone, a boudoir session can serve as a beautiful reflection of your personal growth, strength, and resilience. 4. Body Positivity: Embrace and appreciate your body just as it is. 5. Love Letter to Yourself: Create a visual reminder of self-love and acceptance. 6. Pre-Wedding Confidence Boost: Feel stunning and confident before your big day, Before you say "I do," treat yourself to a boudoir session as a reminder of your beauty, confidence, and the amazing journey you're about to embark on as a bride. 7. Anniversary Surprise: Gift your partner an intimate and meaningful surprise. 8. Post-Baby Rejuvenation: Celebrate your journey into motherhood with a revitalising session. 9. Relationship Refresh: Reignite the spark and create beautiful memories together, there's nothing like sending a boudoir photo (or two) to your lover. 10. Empowering Gift: Surprise a loved one with a unique and empowering experience. 11. Bachelorette Party Fun: Enjoy a memorable and empowering activity with your closest friends, hey girl! up for a boudoir photo shoot?. Ask about our Refer a Friend and Share a session vouchers. 12. Body Transformation: All our photo shoots can be transformational, if you're ready to celebrate your personal fitness milestones or body-positive journeys, just type in 'boudoir shoot near me' and let's take that first step :). 13. Boosting Self-Esteem: Enhance your self-esteem and see yourself in a brand new light, with beautiful boudoir nude photography to take home . 14. Embracing Vulnerability: The most courageous things you can do, when you feel the fear, get up and do it anyway. Overcome insecurities and embrace your vulnerability. 15. Channeling Your Inner Goddess: Tap into your fierce, empowered, and feminine energy, I love this sooo much, you are goddess, it's time to roar. 16. Personal Reflection: Capture a moment of 'close your eyes and feel the sunshine' sensation of pure joy. Slow and sensuous movements and poses is a wonderful opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth, go deep and stir your soul. See it shine out through your boudoir photos. 17. Embracing Sensuality: Reconnect with your sensual side and embrace your femininity, from fine art nudes to spicy mama vibes, love yourself in your own way. 18. Overcoming Body Image concerns: Challenge and overcome those negative body image thoughts, let's draw them out & pop them in the trash. 19. Just Because: Treat yourself to a fabulous and empowering experience, simply because it's so much fun. 20. Forever Memories: Create stunning and timeless images that you can cherish for a lifetime. How did we do, did we mention any you resonate with? I'd love to hear your reasons for doing a goddess session. Why not fill out our questionnaire and let's have a chat. Patrick Falaniko Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio | Boudoir Photography London, UK & Beyond
Every so often when the need arises (or when an ambassador retires) I'll put out a discounted ambassador/model call. In this particular case the super enthusiastic whirlwind that is Lucy answered the call, and she's never looked back. A few boudoir photo session or three and quite a few artistic nude images later. Like many of our Ambassadors that came in for a taster session, she's stuck around and has featured many times. This is her story in her own words. There will never be enough words of praise, admiration or gratitude for Patrick and his studio! I have been an ambassador for Goddess Studio for 2 1/2 years and it has been one of the best decisions I have ever made and one that I never questioned from the moment the opportunity arose.
If you don't know what to wear for your session, look at this list for ideas.
Some poses, especially the spicy nudes can be quite challenging for the fuller busted woman, especially for keeping everything in place and not flying everywhere :). I've worked with a few hundred larger busted women over the last few years and for perkiness we've developed a few tips and tricks and poses to help things along. At the end of the day it's just not possible to recreate the bounce of plastic. And obviously we encourage everyone to embrace what they are blessed with. When it comes to lift and separation, great fitting bras and lingerie really helps with that. I've bought a few pieces from Curvy Kate including their Dear Scantilly Range. So far, a great service, pieces are well made and a perfect fit for women up to 38 K, so I'm totally happy to recommend. More and more I see sheer, natural or structured bra's that can add a variety of looks, and excitement, to your photo sessions. Their story. Curvy Kate's journey began with a launch through three small lingerie stores in and around London, specializing in plus-size fittings. Focused on providing the best D plus brands, the team faced challenges in offering the desired choice and fit to their customers. In 2006, a passionate team of bra enthusiasts at Curvy Kate decided to take matters into their own hands. They embarked on designing and producing a range tailored specifically for fuller-cupped individuals who sought something fun, fashionable, and, above all, beautifully fitted. Devoted to making women feel fabulous about their curves, Curvy Kate lives the "boob life," creating D to K cup lingerie and swimwear that curvy girls love. Their mission is simple: to make you happy by prioritizing fit, lift, shape, and comfort. The team works tirelessly to ensure your gorgeous figure gets everything it needs. Bras from Curvy Kate are rigorously tested by girls of all shapes, sizes, and curves. Only the snuggest, perkiest, and most comfortable designs earn a spot in their collection. Surprisingly, the average bra size they sell is a 34G, catering to a diverse range of sizes from small back sizes to plus sizes, including 40 to 44 backs and a variety of D to K cups. Their dedication to finding the perfect fit for all curvy bodies is showcased through the annual Star in a Bra competition, transforming one curvaceous lady into the poster girl for curvy girls everywhere. If you cherish your boobs as much as Curvy Kate does, they're here to help you discover the ideal fit! (Featured Elementary Plunge Bodysuit, Dear scantilly, Indulgence Stretch Lace Bodysuit in Ivory Cream worn by Jamie AKA @biggerbustbabe if you have any bigger bust questions, why not give her a follow) Interestingly some people think I specialise in photographing larger busted, curvier and plus-size women, but the truth is the average bust size in the UK is Double D and a size 16 so that 50% of the population DD and above. That's about the same for my client base. I just make sure they are showcased as much as everyone else :). Lingerie Spotlight: Celebrating UK lingerie designers and makers. If you have a lingerie brand or similar that you'd like to be featured, please get in touch, let's start a conversation :). Patrick Falaniko Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio
Thinking about modeling as a career? It's a hella lot more challenging than it seems, but I can guide you :). Start by assessing if you have the potential for modeling, you'll need a thick skin, determination, a professional attitude. Then, approach agencies with evidence of your credentials - here's where I come in to help!
Hello Empowerment Enthusiasts! I'm passionate about empowerment photography, and helping women express themselves unapologetically and achieve their goals with beautiful imagery. I believe in women, and I love to help women believe in themselves, it's that simple. And that's why often you'll find my focus extends beyond the beauty of boudoir shoots and sensual nudes and maternity portraits. Personal branding, lifestyle/magazine-style shoots, business headshots and portraits tailored for incredible business women and entrepreneurs. I love it :).
Tiannah's Story. "Four years ago, I lost my firstborn to a stillbirth. Five months later, I discovered I was pregnant with my 'Rainbow baby.' My second child was born, and I am proud to have breastfed for 14 months. With all of these changes to my body, I started not to recognise myself. Some days I disliked looking in the mirror, and then there were days I loved what I saw. My scars and extra weight are a part of my story. I grew to love my body and all that it had endured. Deciding to participate in Patrick's 'Body Love' series was a profound statement of self-love and acceptance. It was an acknowledgment that I am perfect, even with my imperfections. I hope to grow more in wisdom and continue to promote self-love and healing.” Tiannah Birdsong. Deciding to take part in Patrick's empowering "Body Love" series was a profound act of self-love and acceptance for Tiannah. It symbolized her acknowledgement that she is perfect just as she is, imperfections and all. Through the beautiful photographs captured by Patrick, Tiannah saw herself in a new light. They became a visual celebration of her body's journey and a reminder of her wisdom and courage. “Just saw the photos, you are amazing!!! I LOVEEEE them and they have brought my spirits up so much. Thank you a thousand times!!!” Tiannah's experience with the "Body Love" series has inspired her to grow and continue to advocate for self-love and healing. She hopes to empower others to embrace their bodies, no matter the scars or changes they may bear. Tiannah's story is a powerful reminder that true beauty radiates from within, and embracing our bodies with love and acceptance is the key to finding healing and peace. If you're ready to embark on your own journey of self-acceptance and healing, contact us today to book your own transformative "Body Love" nude photoshoot. Together, we'll create stunning images that celebrate your unique beauty and help you embrace the love and acceptance you deserve. Book my Body Love session One of my goals is to produce a Body Love coffee table book & exhibition, if you'd like to take part please let me know when booking. Patrick Falaniko Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio | Personal Empowerment Photographer, London UK & Beyond.
"Winter's here, and it's got us thinking about bringing some warmth back into your world, lovely. A time to reconnect with that inner fire that might get a bit dim in the daily grind. Now, in the world of artistic nudes photoshoots, I've seen some amazing (re)discoveries – people finding their way back to their body confidence through our sensual and body love nudes.
Dear Goddess, We often talk about glitter, glamour, poses and the power of unashamed female sensuality. We often talk about the top ten poses that every woman wants in her collection. We don't often talk about those quiet moments. The moments where the guided poses have sunk in and you've really found your groove, and you are just moving with freedom and ease. There's a story unfolding between the big moves, the popular money shots, where we just click, where the lens capture more than mere images - it holds the essence of who we are.
Patrick Falaniko | Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio
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So what happens if you really only require one or two images? Yes, I get do get many inquiries for actor and modelling online applications, and Linkedin and Business Profile images, the Ice Breaker session is ideal for you.
Of course you can treat yourself to a luxurious and empowering experience, simply because you deserve it. Here's a few more wonderful reasons to book a boudoir photo shoot or photo session with us... 1. Self-Love: Take time out to embrace self-care and celebrate your own unique beauty. 2. Empowerment: (Re)discover your confidence and an inner strength you may have not realised you had all along. 3. Milestone Celebrations: Whether it's turning 30, 40, or 50, any significant milestone, a boudoir session can serve as a beautiful reflection of your personal growth, strength, and resilience. 4. Body Positivity: Embrace and appreciate your body just as it is. 5. Love Letter to Yourself: Create a visual reminder of self-love and acceptance. 6. Pre-Wedding Confidence Boost: Feel stunning and confident before your big day, Before you say "I do," treat yourself to a boudoir session as a reminder of your beauty, confidence, and the amazing journey you're about to embark on as a bride. 7. Anniversary Surprise: Gift your partner an intimate and meaningful surprise. 8. Post-Baby Rejuvenation: Celebrate your journey into motherhood with a revitalising session. 9. Relationship Refresh: Reignite the spark and create beautiful memories together, there's nothing like sending a boudoir photo (or two) to your lover. 10. Empowering Gift: Surprise a loved one with a unique and empowering experience. 11. Bachelorette Party Fun: Enjoy a memorable and empowering activity with your closest friends, hey girl! up for a boudoir photo shoot?. Ask about our Refer a Friend and Share a session vouchers. 12. Body Transformation: All our photo shoots can be transformational, if you're ready to celebrate your personal fitness milestones or body-positive journeys, just type in 'boudoir shoot near me' and let's take that first step :). 13. Boosting Self-Esteem: Enhance your self-esteem and see yourself in a brand new light, with beautiful boudoir nude photography to take home . 14. Embracing Vulnerability: The most courageous things you can do, when you feel the fear, get up and do it anyway. Overcome insecurities and embrace your vulnerability. 15. Channeling Your Inner Goddess: Tap into your fierce, empowered, and feminine energy, I love this sooo much, you are goddess, it's time to roar. 16. Personal Reflection: Capture a moment of 'close your eyes and feel the sunshine' sensation of pure joy. Slow and sensuous movements and poses is a wonderful opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth, go deep and stir your soul. See it shine out through your boudoir photos. 17. Embracing Sensuality: Reconnect with your sensual side and embrace your femininity, from fine art nudes to spicy mama vibes, love yourself in your own way. 18. Overcoming Body Image concerns: Challenge and overcome those negative body image thoughts, let's draw them out & pop them in the trash. 19. Just Because: Treat yourself to a fabulous and empowering experience, simply because it's so much fun. 20. Forever Memories: Create stunning and timeless images that you can cherish for a lifetime. How did we do, did we mention any you resonate with? I'd love to hear your reasons for doing a goddess session. Why not fill out our questionnaire and let's have a chat. Patrick Falaniko Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio | Boudoir Photography London, UK & Beyond
Every so often when the need arises (or when an ambassador retires) I'll put out a discounted ambassador/model call. In this particular case the super enthusiastic whirlwind that is Lucy answered the call, and she's never looked back. A few boudoir photo session or three and quite a few artistic nude images later. Like many of our Ambassadors that came in for a taster session, she's stuck around and has featured many times. This is her story in her own words. There will never be enough words of praise, admiration or gratitude for Patrick and his studio! I have been an ambassador for Goddess Studio for 2 1/2 years and it has been one of the best decisions I have ever made and one that I never questioned from the moment the opportunity arose.
If you don't know what to wear for your session, look at this list for ideas.
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